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#15
by
Robmeister
on 28 Feb, 2007 09:29
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Chuck, Welcome...
I'm Johnny come lately on this one, but I will add one thing to Albert's post.
The lay-days like a smooth dome as much as they like longer hair, if not more.
Most likely it's not the same group of hotties that like BOTH long hair and the slick bean....but there's a growing number of them that dig on the shiny noggin, man.
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#16
by
Paul
on 28 Feb, 2007 10:35
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Welcome Chuck, not much to add to what everyone else has already said, except to say that what ever attracted the ladies to you in the first place was the real you. That person is still there whether with hair or slick. Willing to bet you will be a success. Need a confidence boost, this is the place to be.
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#17
by
MagmaBabe
on 28 Feb, 2007 11:02
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#18
by
ar3inc
on 28 Feb, 2007 11:51
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Oh babe...
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#19
by
MagmaBabe
on 28 Feb, 2007 11:57
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Oh babe...
...and for the third time today....
What?!!!
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#20
by
ar3inc
on 28 Feb, 2007 12:05
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I never placed you as hair puller that's all.
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#21
by
schro
on 28 Feb, 2007 12:08
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I never placed you as hair puller that's all.
I envision Mbabe as the hair pullee
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#22
by
MagmaBabe
on 28 Feb, 2007 12:14
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LMAO aint nuthin' like a bit of Wednesday wickedness!!
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#23
by
Argyle
on 28 Feb, 2007 12:19
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Hi
I am or have been in exactly the same boat as you. I am 28 and started losing hair in my early 20's there is now no hair to speak of on the top of my head. I have been through all the emotional crap, although have never taken anything for it, I am not criticising people who do, but i figured a lifelong dependency on drugs wasnt a good thing.
Anyway I found this site and have found it a real help. I dont think i have come on here and said, I feel awful about my hair loss, but generally i have talked about crap and just learned to acceot my baldness by talking to this bunch of guys (and girls - sorry magma and kory). There is no way six months ago i would have posted a photo on an internet forum. In fact i would have avoided most mirrors etc.
Now, whilst i wouldnt say that i like being bald more than being hairy, i am more at ease with it. I have come to realise that lack of hair rarely makes too much of a difference u still have the same hangups and often the hair is an excuse. Now i can honestly say that i look in the mirror and think, that is ok, sometimes i even like what i see lol, yes there are things i dont like, i wish my head was less shiny, but then hey some people have a big nose, nobbly knees, or funny toes.
I like many of the guys on here have an amazing (6 month pregnant) girlfriend and she has never ever said that my lack of hair is a problem to her. In fact she says she prefers it and loves the freshly shaved feel. I dont think i am any less or any more good looking than i was before, but now i just have less hair, the bonus is now that i am sly, and starting to enjoy that fact. This site has helped in that acceptance.
Hang around speak to the guys, take their advice on board. Ultimately whether you like your bald head or not (when it happens) I can assure you that it will look better shaved. I havent seen one person on this site who looks worse shaved than thinning.
Take a couple of days of work and shave on a friday, in four days you will just have a tight buz cut anyway and half way to growing back.
Let us know how you get on.
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#24
by
MagmaBabe
on 28 Feb, 2007 12:24
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great post Argyle
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#25
by
Argyle
on 28 Feb, 2007 14:05
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Thanks MB
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#26
by
Cam
on 28 Feb, 2007 23:21
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Yeah, everyone has already said everything I would've said. I can tell you though, one thing women love more than hair.. is a man being confident when they don't have it! Now, go shave it all off and join the botherhood!
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#27
by
Tyler
on 28 Feb, 2007 23:24
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Yeah, everyone has already said everything I would've said. I can tell you though, one thing women love more than hair.. is a man being confident when they don't have it! Now, go shave it all off and join the botherhood!
Ding, that is correct!
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#28
by
half-shaved
on 05 Mar, 2007 01:27
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I was only slightly worried about what women would think about my shaved head, until a female friend of mine told me that she could just imagine what it would feel like on the inside of her thighs.
Probably TMI and, if so, I apologize for it.
and you haven't lived till you've sat in a bar and had strange women come up behind you and lick the back of your head...a very interesting experience
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#29
by
Robmeister
on 05 Mar, 2007 08:35
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I was only slightly worried about what women would think about my shaved head, until a female friend of mine told me that she could just imagine what it would feel like on the inside of her thighs.
Probably TMI and, if so, I apologize for it.
and you haven't lived till you've sat in a bar and had strange women come up behind you and lick the back of your head...a very interesting experience
Ok....enough of the CONS.....what about the PROS?