That is really great to read! I'm seriously happy for you. I have very similar experiences myself, noticing that girls were even more attracted to me after than before It's just what you need to really embrace it and enjoy all the advantages, because also from a practical perspective there are plenty. One thing I also noticed, is that it might help from a career perspective. I am currently participating in job procedures for some highly sought after positions, and several recruiters have pointed out my fresh and confident outlook. I am 100% certain that my previous "surf-dude" hair would have changed their perception Although I also like to work out and stay fit, I would not become too buff if I were you though. You risk becoming "one of those types" and I think most women prefer a fit/healthy/athletic posture over a massive V-shape and being totally ripped. I literally had a friend of mine (no hair, got addicted to fitness) say that he sort of accidentally ended up looking much rougher/gangster than he actually is. He literally told me he is now trying to loose some weight and look more like an athlete rather than a prisoner But again, I'm happy for your new found happiness and mindset!
you could be related to John Travolta...
That may be your "harsh reality", but just because that's your world view doesn't make it anyone else's reality, nor make it true.And I will firmly disagree with "most guys do not look great with shaven heads". You are, of course, free to have that opinion, but your opinion does not make it fact.
But you must agree that baldness not by choice makes you less attractive
A girl once told me.. its not easy to still look good with a shaven head.. so if you do.. consider yourself lucky.sorry to break the news to you bro but if females have not given you compliments about the shaven head then you probably don't look good with it.. I shave my head bald and still get told by most females that I don't need hair and still look good.some guys look better than others with a shaven head... its not an easy thing to still look good with a shaven head and most guys do not look great with shaven heads... because most guys are just average looking... if you're not well above average looking as in an 8+, strong jaw line, nice eyes, good symmetry, good proportions... then you're not going to look handsome with a shaved head... you'll look better with hair.The harsh reality is this.. If you can't pull off a shaven head and still be considered attractive by females... then you're simply not good looking enough to pull off a shaven head. Some guys just have the right look for it... Once you shave off your hair.. your face needs to compensate.. and if your face isn't good looking enough then you're gonna have problems.Here's an example of a guy who would still be considered to be attractive even with the shaved head / balding.http://i59.tinypic.com/2iuq58x.jpgHe would look better with hair as would most anyone.. but the lack of hair won't kill him.