I feel the same way reddog about my gray hair. That is my gray fringe. I see it and I feel old and tired. When I shave bald I feel just the opposite. I can't stand seeing the gray hair on my head. What I don't understand is I have no trouble looking in the mirror at a white beard everyday. I hope one day to figure that one out. Then there is the body hair, arms, legs and chest all dark brown so that doesn't match the face. Hoping when I'm around 100 it will start to even out!